Things that matter most

I had a vision (if you can call it that) while driving the other day of my children being full grown tomorrow. Tomorrow. My heart sunk as I realized I will never get this day back with them. I think it was a tender mercy of The Lord, helping me realize I should enjoy this day and live with no regrets. Then I had a lesson in church yesterday about focusing on what's most important in life and having no regrets. I spend way too much time "socializing" on my phone when I could be spending better time with my family. So due to that lesson and inspiration from a friend (thanks Allison) I took my first step. I deleted facebook and instagram on my phone. All too often I've been the mom at the playground that is busy texting or facebooking or whatever on my phone and ignoring my children's requests to push them on the swing. Embarrassing and sad. No more temptations for me right now. Time to focus on the things that matter most.

I know I posted this before, but it is so good and goes with this post so here it is again.

Comments

Karl said…

Thanks for the terrific message you wrote. And the video is great. Some days I'm lonely and so much appreciate the memories of past activities and experiences. We love you and your family!

2/25/2013

Diane said…

I love this video. It is so relevant no matter what stage of life one is in. You are doing a great job raising your family. And you continue to teach me also.

3/01/2013

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